I make no complaints....No hago quejas....

What is a complaint? Well, let's start out what it is not. Describing your situation, as is and truthfully without embellishment or underplaying the details; yet, getting honest and telling the details to the right people who really need to know. Once done, then make a plan to make changes, hopefully for improvement; and move on. Do it. "Just do it," they say.

Now, a complaint ... is pretty much saying the same thing over and over and making no changes; therefore, it becomes a nagging, almost OCD problem. Yes, it is a problem because it can make you stuck in a place much longer than need be.

Contact me if you need to move on. MOI - Life Coaching and Advocacy Skills can get you through your hump. Email: fido3inrecovery@yahoo.com or 434-219-9034 ReGina (hablo Ingles y Espanol).

¿Qué es una queja? Bueno, empecemos por lo que no es. Describiendo su situación y con la verdad sin adorno o desestiman los detalles; sin embargo, conseguir honesto y contando los detalles a las personas que realmente necesita saber. Una vez hecho esto, haga un plan para hacer cambios, esperemos que para la mejora; y sigue adelante. Hazlo. "Solo hacerlo, " dicen.

Ahora, una queja... es más o menos diciendo lo mismo una y otra vez y no hay cambios; por lo tanto, se convierte en un fastidio, casi problema de TOC. Sí, es un problema porque te puede hacer en un lugar mucho más tiempo del necesario.

One day at a time - Mixed emotions

There was a day that I would've been so upset that I could not focus on the next thing to do. Reprioritizing, one thing at a time, keep it simple, self-care, balance, and be not afraid to face our debtors are all great tools for me to use even when I am unable to identify the emotions I go through when in an occupied space such as now. My plate is full and I feel calm but somewhat upset at times. The anxiety levels are better under control because I know it is possible to be in panic mode but by the Grace of God and faith in God I'm calm. I'm sad. I'm happy and blessed. I'm appreciative of many people that step up when you are really in need. To tell me the truth and to offer help to solve the problem is fantastic friendship. Thank you guys for your support. Make sure you keep support in your recovery because if I am not working on my recovery then I am working on my relapse - and I don't want to go there....for sure!!!!

Spiritual but not religious

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Just updating things

have been more emotionally motivated to organize the house, our work, and family life altogether.
as I stay further and further away from those who try to 'push themselves' on me with their chaos;
the more and more I am more open minded to focus on good things I can do to help others.

Thanks for the support - Gracias por apoyo.

At times I may have to post strong, sensitive, and or taboo subjects for FB. It may get a variety of feel from many different folks; yet, that is why I come to FB for certain research and opinions. I have a variety of views because of the variety of people in my life. I love diversity. Most people appreciate me for that. Well, once again I am having some recourse about a strong topic- Churches going through Changes. I find this a very positive go ahead because first of all people want change but when it actually presents itself with doable actions they get a little squirmy and some maybe even scared. No need to be either if your faith is strong. God will not bring us to it if God was not planning to get us through it, right? We simply must revert back to our simple, original, and core values when time comes and those that challenge these are normally those who need to be let go....to be free to run their own life without me anywhere in their path. Yes, for those who know me I have to be in a cleansing mode at this point until (God) lets me know that I've done enough cleansing for now. So, if you want to stay in my life and on FB with me please enter yes or no if you have read this far. This is two sided so I have to be willing to accept that some people may want me out of their lives. This is the circle of life guys; lets make ourselves prosperous by reorganizing, reprioritizing, and organizing our energies in a way that's best for us all. With lots and lots of love and understanding,

A veces tendré que publicar a temas fuertes, sensibles o tabúes para FB. Puede llegar una variedad de sentir de mucha gente diferente; Sin embargo, es por eso vengo a FB para ciertas investigaciones y opiniones. Tengo una variedad de puntos de vista debido a la variedad de personas en mi vida. Me encanta la diversidad. Mayoría de la gente me aprecia por eso. Bueno, una vez más estoy teniendo algún recurso sobre un fuerte tema - iglesias atravesando cambios. Esto me parece muy positivo ir adelante porque primero de todo la gente quiere cambio, pero cuando se presenta en realidad con acciones factible se ponen un poco retorcida y algunos incluso miedo. No hace falta que sea si tu fe es fuerte. Dios no nos llevará a él si Dios no estaba planeando para llevarnos a través de él, ¿no? Nosotros simplemente debemos volver a nuestra simple, original, y valores hora y aquellos que cuestionan estos normalmente son aquellos que necesitan ser dejarlo ir... a ser libres para correr su propia vida sin mí en su camino. Sí, para aquellos que saben me que tengo que estar en modo de limpieza en este punto hasta que (Dios) me deja saber he hecho suficiente limpieza por ahora. Entonces, si desea permanecer en mi vida y en FB conmigo por favor escriba sí o no si has leído esto hasta ahora. Esto es dos caras así que tengo que estar dispuesto a aceptar que algunas personas pueden quiere de sus vidas. Este es el círculo de hombres de vida; permite hacernos prósperos por reorganizar, repriorización y organizar nuestras energías en una manera que es mejor para todos nosotros. Con montones y montones de amor y comprensión,

Doing Fine - Haciendo bellas

The family is transitioning well with the move; however, some of the physical work has been really hard on us. Faith and prayers will continue to help us have physical and emotional strength to move on. Thanks for all the support.

La familia está en transición con el movimiento; Sin embargo, algunos de los trabajos físicos ha sido muy duro para nosotros. Fe y oraciones continuarán nos ayude a tener fuerza física y emocional para seguir adelante. Gracias por todo el apoyo.
 

Heaven on Earth

Pray and believe I will receive;
just as many beliefs may say.
As long as I stay within my faith
and favorable answers come my way.

My family and I decided to look for a healthier house to live in. May be not as exclusive but healthier. Mixed emotions flying all over the place, including the child in all the processes, and praying that if this move is truly God's will for us in the long run; we are now ready for the fun.

All has fallen into place as if its been in my face; the entire time that I've claimed its mine.
God is good all the time and all the time God is good.

Thank you God for letting me know what heaven on earth feels like!