You never know who you meet and where you may meet them...

A few years back I attended a wonderfully, community involved church. The pastor was a retired motorcycle rider (he still had his Harley and leathers). His wife was supportive of all his efforts and support of the attempts of each department of the church (bells, music, liturgical dance, community outreach kids programs, bible study circles, and discipleship program.) I grew a lot with this particular church family. I grew to know that giving my time and me just being there was very helpful. Yes, the monetary donations helped but the personal touch and love given within all the participants really is what touched the community. The pastor just one day decided to dress in dirty, holey jeans, mangled shirt, and a big sun hat. He sat on the front step of the church while the members and guests entered the church. They had to pass him in some form. Some people stopped and asked if he needed help or if he would like to join them and more passed him by. When time started for the church service; he rose slowly and meandered through the crowd up to the pulpit. Still at this point no one had a clue who was in these tethered clothes. When he raised his face up to see everyone and for everyone to see him there was a sound of awe then a quick silence and an unexplained interest in the air of the congregants. Now, the moral of this story is you never know who you meet and where you may meet them .. . just something to think about!


Tonight I go to a training party a city over. I recognize a lady. I not only recognize her I never met her before. It was her mother I grew up with. After all the introductions and encouragement to enjoy the teaching for the night, I gave her my contact information and reminded her of how I know her. She passed as a her mother's twin. They know the ex-wife of my new husband; but there were no animosities. We were all there to learn how to be better people and mainly ourselves. It was wonderful to meet this young lady and I pray for her growth in personal, spiritual, and financial life. If you ever read this, I want you to know you are a beautiful soul and expression of God - just as you are. I will be honored to take Nerium sharecations with you and your friends.


I'm excited about all of us prospering together. God bless.

Book of the week - Revisit to "Less: Accomplishing more by doing less" by Marc Lesser

A book to help me organize myself in many areas of my life. I am tired of carrying the weight around my waist, the burdens on my shoulders, and the  mess in my house. I am healthy and have reasonable weight for my own body, I am excited about the responsibilities I have, and my house is tidy and organized.


This is my practice while I read this book. Please add your comments below. Would love different ideas.

Nerium and Team Work

rmason.nerium.com is a portal for more than a great product but a happier, healthier and improved lifestyle. Just three months into it I find myself moving up the social ladder. Although I believe no one is better than anyone else; I must be responsible for me and my family's improving lifestyle.


rmason.nerium.com provides tools for a better me. Want to make money just by living your life? It takes a person that is willing to be creative in their working habits; understanding the traditional working status, and remembering those long hours, aching back, sore feet, and tiredness for just the hourly amount; and a 'why' to want to make this change in industry and addition to career.


We often become our titles when we are professionals. Who are you without these labels. Ok, we put ourselves through college so we can help others. Who am I if I drop my professional labels? This is a question that most of us are only confronted with when the situation is disrupted by outside stimuli.


Team Work is not only helpful, constructive, supportive, and sometimes even challenging. Without it many people flounder around like a fish out of the water. If one person of the team is not pulling as much weight and responsibility as the rest do we just do their part and not hold them accountable? Or do we turn inward and find out what it really is that is allowing this particular team member to be lacks in their share of the creativity? Instead of looking at it as a deliberate act of laziness maybe there is a real need for them needing the support of the entire team in a way that each and every team member may need at other specific times.


So, we pull together and make a collective decision whether or not an intervention of concern lays in our responsibility as team members. And please for God's sake, do not forget the one in supposed need. If the group makes a decision to be 'extra' supportive at a time that maybe, just maybe, the team member simply needs a slight breather from the collective (some people call this 'me time') in order to portray compassion and genuine concern the team must ask if this intervention of concern is actually necessary.


Nerium and Team Work = support, love for the other team members' success, and profits (not paycheck). God bless and stay in tune with yourself...ReGina Mason, Author, Certified Life Coach, Advocate, and Interpreter.

What is a Certified Life Coach? Que es un coache de la vida de certificada? عمر گواهی مربی است؟

Do you ever feel stuck? just making decisions? going through lots of changes and may need to reprioritize? What changes are you willing to make to get where you wish to be and to become it is you want to be? Life Coaches focus specifically on a treatment plan that you and them write up together. We help you stay focused on your efforts and help you reach your goals. We simply help you open those doors that feel a little stuck after awhile. Regain a spark for life if necessary. Give us a try.
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¿Te sientes atrapado? ¿Sólo toma decisiones? ¿pasando por muchos cambios y puede necesitar cambiar la prioridad? ¿Qué cambios están dispuesta a hacer para llegar a donde quiera que esté y se convierten en él es que quieres ser? Vida entrenadores centran específicamente en un plan de tratamiento que usted y ellos escriban juntos. Nos ayudan a concentrarse en sus esfuerzos y ayudarle a alcanzar sus metas. Nosotros simplemente ayudamos a abrir esas puertas que se sienten un poco atascado después de un rato. Recuperar una chispa de vida si es necesario. ¡ Pruébanos.

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به دام افتاده احساس می کنید? فقط طول می کشد تصمیم گیری کنید؟ رفتن را از طریق بسیاری از تغییرات و ممکن است نیاز به تغییر اولویت است؟ تغییرات هستند تمایل به را به هر کجا که شما هستند و تبدیل آن است که شما می خواهید? زندگی تسلیم تمرکز به طور خاص در درمان شما برنامه و نوشتن آنها با هم. آنها ما را به تمرکز بر روی خود تلاش و کمک به رسیدن به اهداف خود کمک کند. ما به سادگی برای باز کردن درب های آن است که کمی گیر پس از مدتی احساس کمک می کند. جرقه های زندگی اگر لازم است بازیابی. ما را امتحان کنید.

 

Happy New Year!

I find myself rushing to your posting this morning and now I know why; God's message to me, through you, verifying what I intellectually know and motivating my maturity of the heart. This is exactly what I pray for to come into complete existence in my life and character. I also want to add the power and God's gift of character of discernment. This power does not come naturally it must be given by God and received by person. Nurtured by consciousness and matured by acceptance and put into action by participation. Pass it on. Anything we may learn and allow to change in our person for improvement of quality in life. God bless. I thank God everyday for our contact and communication.

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Me encuentro corriendo a tu publicación esta mañana y ahora sé por qué; El mensaje de Dios a mí, a través de ti, verificar qué sé intelectualmente y motivando a mi madurez del corazón. Esto es exactamente lo que pido a venir a la existencia completa en mi vida y el carácter. También quiero añadir el poder y el don de Dios del carácter de discernimiento. Este poder no sale naturalmente debe ser dada por Dios y recibida por persona. Alimentados por la conciencia y madurado por la aceptación y puesta en acción por participación. Pasa la voz. Nada podemos aprender y permiten para cambiar en nuestra persona para la mejora de la calidad de vida. Dios los bendiga. Doy gracias a Dios todos los días para el contacto y la comunicación.

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من به پست شما صبح اجرا و در حال حاضر من می دانم که چرا. پیام خدا به من از طریق شما، بررسی آنچه که من می دانم فکری و انگیزه من بلوغ قلب. این دقیقا همان است آنچه من را برای آمدن به وجود کامل در زندگی و شخصیت من بپرسید. من همچنین می خواهم برای اضافه کردن قدرت و هدیه ای از خدا از شخصیت بصیرت. این قدرت در آمده نه به طور طبیعی باید داده شده توسط خدا و دریافت شده توسط فرد است. مجهز به آگاهی و پذیرش و عمل توسط شرکت بالغ. گسترش این کلمه. هیچ چیز ما می توانند یاد بگیرند و اجازه می دهد برای تغییر در فرد ما برای بهبود کیفیت زندگی. خدا خیرت بدهد. خدا هر روز برای تماس و ارتباط تشکر می کنم.

 

Be true to yourself and you will always be true to others!

How am I going to move through this one?

A four year romantic relationship, proposal to marriage, and lots of love....how do I move on without expressing negative feelings. Feelings of wasting my time, causing multiple challenges, holding myself back in some other community and academia field. The list goes on.

I fault myself for the part of not listening to my intuition, or my God self/gut instinct, that appeared early on in the relationship. Was this an experiment? To see how long I could prove myself right or wrong? The red flags were not so red at first but later became so bright that …. I'm numb right now. I don't know what to say.

Down deep in my heart I knew the ex-wife and him had a connection beyond anything I could or would have with him. He tried to keep me out of comparison with her. Until the end! That is the icing on the cake. He ran to her whenever there was a challenge in our relationship. That told me more and more since it started to happen more and more.

He planted the seed of infidelity in my head; one that does not come to me naturally. I stand by my partner no matter what unless abuse starts then I am out of there. I only started with conversations with long distant, online conversations and dreams of what I may want in a relationship that I was not getting from this one.

I begged him to stop. Stop the accusations. I know in my heart and mind that the accuser is normally the one that is doing the accusations. I did not pursue it because I just wanted to focus on the positive of our relationship. Well, overtime the accusations became so abundant that I did not want to talk or see him. That was all our conversations were about.

So, when I real life, attractive invitation came a long I started to spend some time with them. Thinking that the original relationship dis-earned the right to know my whereabouts and my doings. So, without explanations I pleaded the fifth even for having conversations with this new person.

Well, now that I know that the 4 year relational partner was with his ex-wife I knew what was going on. I immediately wanted to be with someone else.

In trying to cordially work out the return of shared properties and such without an argument or non-approval of entry to my home ever again; no compromise so I told him I will just keep all the stuff safe and talk to him in front of a judge.

Writing this, prayer for them, blessing and loving them in a release is necessary for me. I spend most of my time with or around this person by this time. Now, I must make a lot of changes. Which I am starting to get excited over because I have some accomplishments to attain. My internship and Masters Degree, build my business, raise my daughter, take care of my animals and myself. So, I may do it through blogging to encourage others in similar situations to STAY TRUE TO YOUR OWN SELF and nothing can go wrong. I am free. I am free to be me. If you do not like me you have a right to tell me and too, I have a right to listen or rebuke you. Therefore, I will be true to ME. Remaining true to me will keep me true to all others. In love, peace, and God's grace.....STAY TRUE TO YOUR OWN SELF. The answer IS within ourselves.

¿Cómo voy a moverse a través de éste. Una relación romántica de cuatro años, la propuesta de matrimonio y un montón de amor... Cómo puedo mover sin expresar sentimientos negativos. Sentimientos de perder el tiempo, causando múltiples desafíos, sosteniendo mi vuelta en algún otro campo comunidad e instituciones académicas. La lista continúa. Yo mismo fallo para la parte de no escuchar mi intuición, o Dios mismo/instinto, que apareció desde el principio en la relación. ¿Esto fue un experimento? ¿A ver cuánto podría probarme bien o mal? Las banderas rojas fueron no tan rojo al principio pero luego se convirtió en tan brillante que... Ahora siento nada. No sé qué decir. En lo profundo en mi corazón sabía que la ex esposa y él tenía una conexión más allá de lo que podría o tendría con él. Trato de mantenerme fuera de comparación con ella. Hasta el final! Es la guinda del pastel. Corrió hacia ella cada vez que había un reto en nuestra relación. Eso me dijo más y más desde que empezó a pasar más y más. Plantó la semilla de la infidelidad en mi cabeza; uno que no me llegan naturalmente. Me no quedo con mi compañero importarlo menos abuso comienza entonces estoy fuera de allí. Empecé con conversaciones con conversaciones de larga distancia, en línea y los sueños de lo que puedo quiero en una relación que no estaba recibiendo de éste. Le rogué que se detuviera. Detener las acusaciones. Sé en mi corazón y mi mente que el acusador es normalmente el que está haciendo las acusaciones. No lo persiguieron porque quería concentrarse en los aspectos positivos de nuestra relación. Bueno, las horas extras las acusaciones se convirtieron tan abundantes que no quería hablar o verlo. Eso fue todo nuestras conversaciones fueron sobre. Entonces, cuando ya la vida real, atractiva invitación vino mucho empecé a pasar algún tiempo con ellos. Pensando que la relación original dis-ganó el derecho a saber de mi paradero y mis acciones. Así, sin explicaciones le rogué la Quinta incluso para tener conversaciones con esta nueva persona. Bueno, ahora que sé que el año 4 relacional socio fue con su ex esposa que sabía lo que estaba pasando. Inmediatamente quería estar con otra persona. En intentando averiguar cordialmente la devolución de propiedades compartidas y tal sin un argumento o no aprobación de entrada a mi casa nunca más; sin compromiso así que le dije sólo mantendrá seguro todas las cosas y hablar con él delante de un juez. Escribiendo esto, es necesario orar por ellos, bendición y amarlos, en un comunicado. Paso la mayor parte de mi tiempo con o alrededor de esa persona por esta vez. Ahora, debo hacer muchos cambios. Que estoy empezando a entusiasmarse sobre porque tengo algunos logros a alcanzar. Mi pasantía y maestría, construir mi negocio, criar a mi hija, cuidar de mis animales y yo. Así, podría hacerlo a través de blogs para animar a otros en situaciones similares a permanecer verdadero a su propio ser y nada puede salir mal. Estoy libre. Soy libre de ser yo. Si no te gusta me tienes derecho a decirme y también tengo derecho a escuchar o te reprenda. Por lo tanto, yo seré fiel a mí. Permaneciendo fiel a mí me va a mantener fiel a todos los demás. En el amor, la paz y la gracia de Dios...MANTENTE FIEL A TI MISMO. La respuesta está dentro de nosotros mismos.

Staying truthful to one's self /

God made each and every one of us with our own gifts. Some with personality characteristics and others with arts and handy deals. But when a relationship becomes a part of where you have to submit and submerge your God given gifts then it is time to re-evaluate and reprioritize all perceptions. No matter how much you love the person if they can not or choose not to love you unconditionally then the relationship will always be doomed. That unconditional and non-judgmental love is the key to all living relationships.
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Dios hizo a todos y cada uno de nosotros con nuestros propios dones. Algunos de ellos con características de la personalidad y otros artes y práctico se refiere. Pero cuando una relación se convierte en parte de donde usted tiene que presentar y sumergir tu Dios dado regalos y es hora de volver a evaluar y cambiar la prioridad de todas las percepciones. No importa cuánto amas a la persona si no se puede elegir o no amarlos incondicionalmente entonces la relación serán siempre condenado. Ese amor incondicional y sin prejuicios es la clave para todas las relaciones de la vida.

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